From a business context, I enjoy reading and listening to Brian Tracy, arguably one of the best business consultants and speakers in the world today. Brian advocates many personal habits to assist in success, and in particular the setting of goals.
I don’t know about you, but many people I meet never set goals, and yet we know that once the mind is focused on an outcome, and action is taken, “things” seem to occur that makes the outcome a reality.
If setting goals actually work, then why is it that so many people don’t set them. Brian suggests 4 reasons:
1. They think goals aren’t important -
Maybe you have never even thought about the power of goals.
2. They don’t know how to set goals –
You must be specific, but more about that below
3. They have a fear of failure –
You don’t always get what you ask for, but interestingly, you always seem to learn more.
4. They have a fear of rejection –
Guess what, there is always someone out there who will criticise or ridicule your goal – especially if you don’t achieve it. A GOOD TIP IS: pssst – keep it secret. If you need to tell anybody, tell only those you know will support you. Once you achieve your goal, then you can tell anyone!!
There will always be reasons why things don’t go the way we plan (if we plan at all), the choice we have is to either focus on grumbling and complaining on the unhappy outcome, or learn the lesson and try something different in order to achieve the outcome we desire.
This is a great quote:
“We either make ourselves miserable or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same.”
– Carlos Castaneda, author
So how do we set Goals?
Brian Tracy talks a lot about “Clarity”. Clarity means being absolutely crystal clear about who you are and what you want, and then writing it down. Every successful mentor I have had the opportunity to work with created business plans, mind maps, lists, pictures, action diagrams etc. I’ve got a picture of my next motor-cycle on my office wall, and a plan on how and when I’m going to buy it. If you read Michael Phelps’ (one of the greatest swimmers of all time) book – No Limits – Michael explains how every swimming season he sets his goals with his coach, writes them down, and then trains to achieve them.
So decide what you really want:
1. What are your three most important goals in your business and career right now?
2. What are your three most important financial goals right now?
3. What are your three most important family or relationship goals right now?
4. What are your three most important health and fitness goals right now?
and write them down. Don’t just leave them in your head, you’ll forget them or be distracted. Once you put them on paper, your goals seem to be more real. Decide which goals are to be long-term, which are to be short-term, and which fall somewhere in between. Start with your short term goals, and decide what it is that you need to do to achieve your goal. Break down your longer-term goals into smaller goals so that you know that you are on track.
There is a simple five step process that you can go through to set any personal or professional goal. Make sure that all five steps are written into an action document:
1. Identify your goal by writing it down
2. Set a realistic deadline for achievement
3. List all the obstacles to overcome in accomplishing your goal (these may become mini-goals in their own right)
4. List the skills and knowledge required to reach your goal. What do you need to know? (again, this acquisition of knowledge may become further mini-goals)
5. Develop a plan of action to reach your goal.
Remember to stay on track and constantly evaluate your progress. We all get busy, so review your action plan daily. Modify it as your priorities change if you need to, but keep your plans visible and you will be surprised by your continual progress towards your goal(s).
Finally – take action – do something – move forward. The world is full of people who say “would-a, should-a, could-a”. Don’t procrastinate and step outside your comfort zone. You may become pleasantly surprised.
“In talking about time what we really mean is life. If you love life, do not squander time, because it is the stuff of which life is made”
– Benjamin Franklin
By the way, Brian Tracy has been giving away his e-book “Goals” for free – click here